AreWe? — Clarity in your relationship. Quietly.

01Our mission

AreWe? is a privacy-first app designed to help people gain clarity in their relationships without compromising their boundaries.

We empower people with clarity while fully respecting their privacy — giving them the confidence to make informed decisions about their relationship.

02Where we stand

Safe.

Understood.

Never judged.

AreWe? is a serious app. The information it surfaces can be life-changing — and we do not take this process lightly.

You are not prying. You are not second-guessing. You are exercising a basic right: to know the truth about your own life, your own relationship, your own future.

We built this for you — to feel safe, to feel understood, and to feel like someone is finally in your corner.

03How it works

A consent-based system. Both parties notified, or neither.

Add the person you're seeing.

Quietly submit who you're dating. Only you can see it — no profile, no feed, no exposure.

If someone else adds them too…

Our consent-based system detects the overlap in the background. Nothing is shown, shared, or revealed to anyone until both sides match.

You get a match notification.

Both of you are privately alerted at the same time. From there, it's your call — with clarity, on your own terms.

Your privacy is absolute. No one can ever see who signed up, or who you looked up. Everything stays private — always.

04Inside the app

Designed for clarity. Built for privacy.

A calm, focused interface. Everything in one place — your submissions, your matches, your settings. Nothing public. Nothing loud. Nothing exposed.

Dashboard

Everything in one place

Submissions, matches, and activity — always one tap away.

Submission

Add them privately

Basic details only. Required and optional fields. Fully confidential.

Matches

Match detected

Potential similarity flagged. Locked until you choose to unlock.

Settings

Your relationship, your choice

Full control over language and notifications, on your terms.

05Why AreWe? is different

Built on consent. Not on confrontation.

01 — Consent-based

Both parties notified. Or neither.

A match only surfaces when two people independently submit the same individual. Then you both receive a private alert at the same moment.

02 — Privacy-first

Nothing public. Nothing exposed.

Your submissions are never displayed, never shared, never made into a profile. Information stays secure and confidential.

03 — Clarity without drama

Informed decisions, your way.

No confrontation, no guesswork. Just the information you need to make confident, informed decisions about your relationship.

04 — Trilingual

English, French, Spanish. Your language.

Every screen, every notification — switch with one tap in Settings. Built to feel native in whichever language you think in.

06 — For the decisions that matter

Before the big leap. All the cards on the table.

Moving in Getting engaged Saying yes

Moments like these shape the rest of your life. They deserve to be made with the full picture.

AreWe? is not here to create doubt. It is here to give you clarity before commitment — so that whether the answer confirms your choice or reveals something you needed to know, you can keep going with both eyes open.

You deserve to build your future with all the cards on the table.

07Questions, answered

The quiet answers.

What is AreWe? exactly?

AreWe? is a privacy-first app that helps you gain clarity in your relationship. You privately submit the person you are seeing; if another user submits the same individual, the system detects a match and notifies both parties — confidentially.

Who can see what I submit?

Only you. Submissions are never displayed publicly, never shared, and never turned into a profile. They exist solely to power consent-based matching — nothing else.

What happens when there is a match?

Both parties are notified privately, at the same time. Neither person is exposed. You each decide what to do with that information — unlock details, reach out, or step away with the clarity you needed.

What if there is no match?

Nothing happens, and no one knows you submitted anything. Your submission quietly waits in case someone else submits the same person later.

What does a locked match mean?

When a similarity is detected, you are notified — but details stay locked on both sides. You choose if and when to unlock them. Nothing is forced, and no one is exposed without consent.

Is it free?

Core use is free. Unlocking full match details and unlimited submissions are part of premium features. Pricing is shown clearly in-app before any charge.

Which languages are supported?

English, French, and Spanish. Switch any time in Settings & privacy — the full app, including notifications, updates instantly.

Clarity in your relationship. Quietly.

Are you the only one?